Dating Advice – Get Rid If …
17 reasons why you should not date him, but don’t despair because there are many amazing men to date out there too. The good guys are everywhere and you could meet one today.
But first, let’s look at the list …
- If they only talk about themselves on the first date, they’re probably a narcissist. You may be impressed by all that he’s achieved and aspiring to BUT… you have yet to learn that he’ll manipulate you as a puppet, taking you from happiness to despair in seconds.
- If everyone is “stupid” except him in his mind … Abort Mission. He is not worth the time of day.
- Trying to isolate you from friends or family. Surely no man is worth that? But sadly I know of cases where this has in fact happened. Don’t let this happen to you and your family.
- He’s aggressive. He thinks nothing of pointing his finger at you when making his point, even in public. You’ll feel uncomfortable as others watch. This is the makings of a bully!
- Refusing to let you keep friends of the opposite sex, especially if it’s a lifelong friend that you had before you even met them. Your friends deserve your loyalty.
- If they’re still relying on their mother’s approval like they’re still a child, together you’ll be the ‘children‘. Can you imagine having to wait for his mother’s approval on all that you want to do or buy?
- If the phrase “I’m a nice guy” leaves their lips, I advise running in the opposite direction. In my experience, any man who has said this has been the opposite of nice. Some men even talk about their ‘honour’. Again they usually don’t have any.
- He tells you when you start dating, to install a GPS app onto your phone so he’d know where you was at all times. No Way! Trust does not appear to be part of his life.
- If he says all his exes are crazy! OK, it’s definitely possible to have a “crazy ex“, but if they’re ALL crazy then that’s a bad sign. You don’t want to hang around to see his crazy moods!
- Gets super attached super early. He’s either a nutjob, or he’s trying to manipulate you. This guy will have similar traits to the narcissist and best to keep away from him.
- He’s lazy and jobless with no ambition. The couch potato! He’ll be careful who he chooses because he’s looking for someone to pay his way in life. He is a scrounger – full stop. YYou don’t need him in your life, that’s for sure.Yo
- If he wants to go through your phone but won’t let you go through his phone. Blooming nerve of him! Again someone with a very low self esteem.
- Men who nitpick. No, it will not stop. (Have a family friend who nitpicks about every little thing his wife does or says. Bully comes to mind.)
- If they say “all women are crazy … except you” – he’s likely to be a misogynist. Who wants to love a misogynist. Just pronouncing the word is enough!
- He’s obnoxious and crude yet thinks he’s funny. He has no manners and no etiquette. (Not a trait I personally want in my partner.) You would be embarrassed to introduce him to your friends.
- He’s unclean. So he couldn’t even be bothered showering or making an effort to impress you on your first date! His body odour would turn you off immediately.
- He’s a porn addict. Say no more. Just get rid.
Watch out for a follow-up list but in the meantime, what can you add to this one? Please add your own tips below. 🙂
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